Want to know the permanent solution to all your anger issues? Here it is:
They say
that ‘Empty vessels make the most noise.’ The new generation, also called the
gen-Z is recognized by traits such as: being absorbed in social media,
disrespect of elders, inclination towards virtual friends while disregarding relations with real people, and virtual gaming. This is alarming. Picking up
the topic of disrespect of parents and teachers, the spoiled generation is used
to back answering. Whenever the teachers and parents instruct the children to
do something, they question each and every instruction. When elders scold the
younger generation, they back answer and instead of understanding the purpose
of the scolding, they argue and are adamant to listen and improve themselves.
This might be due to the ego of the children. Once they start back answering
regularly, they develop a habit of doing so. They become so used to doing this
that this becomes their new normal. This habit later shows up on job
interviews, and later at workplaces, thus posing difficulties. This is
something that can be kept in check from when they are born.
The ego problem also causes outbursts of anger
even for petty issues. This ego creates a huge gap between what we deserve
and desire. For instance, most of the children choosing MPC desire to get into
IIT Bombay. We need to do a reality check. Only a few are ready to put in
hard work with will power, dedication and determination.
In
competitive exams, survival of the fittest, Darwin’s theory is proved. Wake up!
Rise and realize that the competition for entry into colleges, and jobs has
amped up. Only those who put in the hard work are the ones who bag the prize. To
tackle the ‘Ego problem’, one must realize that health wealth and opportunity
for education are bestowed to you by the Almighty. These can be snatched away from
you this very moment if Almighty wishes that to happen.
Try to understand that the universe in which we live is created by the creator and we are just one of the creations. Think about the vastness of the Universe. Aren’t we just a spec of dust in front of it? Then what are we proud of? To understand the smallness of us in the Universe better, we can spiritually enhance ourselves. And how can we do this? The answer lies in the culture and heritage of India- practice Yoga, do meditation and ensure that you are physically fit. Physical fitness implies mental fitness. You can practice Brahmari, Isha Kriya and other practices. The tranquility one experiences after doing meditation and after praying to God is unmatchable. If you experience this peace and serenity once, you urge for more and in turn, start practising yoga and meditation more often and later incorporate it in your daily regime.
In
conclusion, the habit of back-answering and disrespecting elders and teachers can
be overcome by breaking free from the ego-driven mindset. It takes conscious
effort and the willingness to change. By practicing meditation, cultivating
humility, and acknowledging the divine blessings in our lives, we can bridge
the gap between entitlement and respect. Remember, it is not about being the
loudest voice in the room; it is about being the person who listens and learns.
Best of luck to you if you are trying to change your attitude today onwards!
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